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No Ordinary Courage

By Beth Brophy, May & June 2004

John McCain tells what makes a true American hero




Colin Powell’s Laws of Power (January-February 2002)

As both an outspoken critic of the political establishment and one of its leading members, Republican Senator John McCain of Arizona, 67, occupies a unique position in American politics. Maverick. War hero. A leader who votes his conscience, not along party lines. As such, McCain appeals to a wide spectrum. In 1998, he was reelected for his third Senate term with nearly 70 percent of the vote; 40 percent of the Democrats jumped party lines to support McCain over his Democratic opponent.

Now McCain has published a new book, Why Courage Matters: The Way to a Braver Life, written with Mark Salter (Random House). It's a topic he knows a bit about: The son and grandson of four-star Navy admirals, McCain had a 22-year career as a naval aviator. In 1967, he was shot down over North Vietnam and was held as a prisoner of war in Hanoi until 1973. His naval honors include the Silver Star, Bronze Star, Legion of Merit, Purple Heart, and Distinguished Flying Cross.

From his office at the Russell Senate Office Building, decorated with a southwestern theme, McCain discussed the role of courage in American life and politics.

Q. How real is the threat of terrorism in everyday life for most Americans?

A. The threat is real. We are vulnerable in ways that we have never been before. But to allow that threat to dictate the conduct of our lives is not only a lack of courage; it's a victory for those who are our enemies.

Q. For example?

A. Many Americans now are afraid to fly on an airplane or travel overseas. Some of that is legitimate and some is not. Some people live with fears that they never experienced before, and that has some debilitating effect on them. I'm not saying you go through your life carefree and happy-go-lucky. But recognize that there's a concern there, channel it, and overcome it.

Q. Your book implies that courage is in short supply these days.

A. There are fewer manifestations of courage today than when I first came to Congress nearly 28 years ago. I attribute it to polarization between the two parties and to the fear of offending major special interests—which can be very harmful to one's political career.

Q. Looking over your life of public service, what do you consider your least courageous act?

A. I suppose my improper assistance to Charles Keating [who pled guilty to bankruptcy and wire fraud after the collapse of Lincoln Savings and Loan, which he owned, in 1989], which enmeshed me in the Keating firestorm. The fact that I went to a meeting with an immediate disclaimer that I wanted no special assistance for Mr. Keating, at the time, I thought, was sufficient. It wasn't.

Q. What do you consider your most courageous political act?

A. As a freshman congressman when I voted against a resolution proposed by the Reagan administration to send troops to Beirut.

Q. What about your years as a prisoner of war?

A. It didn't take a lot of talent for me to get shot down. Once I was there, I just did the best that I could. I didn't always live up to my expectations for myself. Luckily, in prison I had others whose strength and persistence were vital to my abilities. Without those comrades I never would have survived, much less conducted myself in an honorable fashion.

Q. You're the father of seven children and the grandfather of four. In a world where public figures often behave badly, how can parents and grandparents teach the younger generation to be courageous?

A. By being with your children and doing things together, and showing them examples of courage and the right way to lead their lives, particularly before they become teenagers and other influences dominate their time and attention. You have to get in early. My 15-year-old son spends untold hours with an interactive video in his hand—which I'm sure improves his hand-to-eye coordination but nothing else. I had much more influence on him in the first 12 years of his life than I do now.

Q. So how do you get their attention?

A. I try to go someplace with them, because when they're home they sure as heck don't want to spend time with me. They want to be with their pals. They want to go to the mall. So if I take them on a trip to the Grand Canyon, they can't—and we're together. Nothing was more boring to me when I was a young boy than my father sitting me down for a talk. But nothing was more fun than to travel and do something together. The important thing is to interact with your kids rather than have them just sit there and think about other things.

Q. What are your thoughts about the courage required to sustain relationships, marriages, and friendships?

A. Having had one failed marriage, I don't feel too qualified to discuss inter-personal relationships except to say that sometimes you know what the right thing to do is, and even if it's hard to do, it does require some courage and there can be consequences. My closest and dearest friends are those whom I was in prison with—those are the enduring relationships of my life.

Q. In your book, you make a distinction between courage and physical bravery. How are they different?

A. Physical bravery is often a reaction to a situation, particularly in combat. It's incredibly laudable, but it's a different kind of courage from when you're given a conscious decision to make that may entail the loss of everything that you hold dear. That kind of courage is incomprehensible. There are several examples of that in my book, including the heroics of Special Forces Master Sergeant Roy Benavidez, a Green Beret who nearly died saving the lives of his buddies in Vietnam in 1968, and Congressman John Lewis (D-Georgia), a civil rights leader who has been one of my heroes.

Q. This time around, you're supporting President Bush. How does he stack up on your courage index?

A. Throughout history, the events make the person as well as the person making the events. I give him great credit for the way he conducted himself on September 11. September 12, I saw him grow. He assumed the mantle of leadership in a time of crisis.

Q. What are your biggest differences?

A. The biggest problem now is fiscal irresponsibility. We've dug a debt, a hole, for our children that is in my view unconscionable, because both Medicare and Social Security cannot be sustained under the present situation. He wants to send people to Mars, and yet I see no point in it with the looming deficit. So those are the kinds of differences.

Q. It has been said that Enron and Tyco and the WorldCom scandals have changed us more profoundly than 9/11. Do you agree?

A. No. But Enron, WorldCom, et cetera, have shaken the fundamental faith that many Americans had in corporate America, which has gone from being held in widespread respect to near-universal contempt. Corporate leaders showed their lack of courage to stand up for what they knew was right. Not a single one of these individuals who have abused the public trust was ignorant of the illegalities of their actions.

Q. You've been called a "Republicrat." Are you becoming more liberal?

A. I am a committed Republican and will remain so. I am a Republican of the Abraham Lincoln-Theodore Roosevelt garden variety, and I want my party to move back to those principles and practices. Our party has left those principles in a number of ways, including environmental issues. We've become captive of special interests such as the National Association of Manufacturers and other big corporate interests—which prevents us from addressing those issues.

Q. Your home state is a haven for retirees. You will be 68 this summer. What are your retirement plans?

A. I'm running for reelection.

Beth Brophy is a Washington, D.C.-based journalist and novelist.