December 3, 2008



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Estate Planning Tips for Unmarried Couples

By Randy B. Hecht, May & June 2004




If you're incapacitated by injury or illness, who is empowered to make medical decisions for you? What will become of your estate—and your loved ones—when you die? The answers depend in large part on your marital status—or, if you are not married, on the provisions you have made for handling the end of your life and distributing your assets as you choose.

Couples who are not married, even those who have made extensive personal, emotional, and financial commitments to one another, have the same legal status as strangers in most states, according to Fred Caspersen, a partner with the law firm Farella Braun + Martel LLP, and Lara Gilman, special counsel. That status affects inheritance rights, the power to act on one another's behalf in the event of a health care emergency, and the obligation to provide financial support.

"Generally, if you die without a will in California, your spouse would inherit all of your community property and, depending on whether you had children or not, some or all of your separate property," Caspersen says. "For same-sex couples who are not registered domestic partners, there are no such inheritance rights. If a person dies without a will who is not a registered domestic partner in California, all of their property would go to their parents, if they were living—if not, to their siblings, etc."

The significance of a registered domestic partnership varies by state. "The federal estate- and gift-tax rules are not in favor of domestic partners and don't look to be any time soon," Gilman cautions, "so the benefits that spouses get are not going to be conferred on domestic partners, registered or not."

"There are a lot of routes other than wills to dispose of property," Caspersen adds. "For example, holding an account or real property in joint tenancy with someone else results in the property passing to the surviving joint tenant at the death of the deceased joint tenant." In most states, he says, "pay-on-death" or "transfer-on-death" accounts available through banks or brokerage houses pass automatically to a designated beneficiary, which makes it possible to avoid administrative problems such as probate. Insurance policy beneficiary designations offer another means by which partners may provide for one another.

Caspersen and Gilman urge people to protect themselves and their loved ones by considering the following actions:

  1. Prepare an advance health care directive naming your partner as your agent to make health care decisions for you. That also acts as a directive in terms of end-of-life measures.
  2. Create a durable power of attorney enabling your partner to manage your assets if you're unable to.
  3. Prepare beneficiary documents to ensure your estate is handled as you wish. Documents could include a will or a will in conjunction with a revocable trust, beneficiary designation, pay-on-death account, and joint tenancy accounts.
  4. Keep beneficiary designations (like those on life insurance contracts and retirement accounts) up to date, especially those acquired before your relationship began.
  5. Consider the effect of taxes on your major gifts. "Under the federal estate-tax law, gifts from one spouse to another are free of estate tax," Caspersen says. "Gifts from an unmarried person to someone else are not free of tax. If the estate is meaningful...you need to think ahead on how to make that money available in a tax-efficient way. And even if you decide that tax is going to have to be paid when [you die], by suspending the property in trust for the benefit of the survivor for the survivor's lifetime, you can at least avoid tax on the death of [your] partner."

If your partner dies, be sure to revise all of your estate-plan documents.