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Surviving a Loss

By Karen Hube, March & April 2005

A new widow finds her income reduced by more than a third. Can she still pay the bills?




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Before her husband died last month, Mary Yaeger, 70, of St. Paul, Minnesota, never worried about the couple's finances. Andrew, 72 when he passed away, had paid the bills, managed their nest egg, and handled all other financial matters. Now Mary wishes she had paid more attention. As if grieving for her spouse weren't enough, she is also faced with the daunting task of taking over the couple's finances. And she is deeply concerned about her future security. Her fears are not unfounded: according to the Women's Institute for a Secure Retirement, more than a third of single women over the age of 75 live in poverty.

The Plan

Mary's first inclination is to grieve first and deal with unpleasant financial matters later. As hard as it may be right now, though, it's critical that Mary not put this off even one more day. "Mary must take steps immediately to preserve her monthly flow of income," says Mark Kaizerman, a financial planner in Natick, Massachusetts. Otherwise, she could suddenly find herself with no money to pay the bills.

Mary has one thing going for her: she won't have to endure probate, the often lengthy and expensive process by which a court oversees the distribution of assets in an estate. Mary was listed as a joint owner or beneficiary of all the couple's assets, so she should be able to take care of everything without going through the courts.

Mary's first task is to figure out how much money she has coming in. She knows that most of the couple's income came from Social Security and Andrew's pension from his lifelong job at a major electronics company. Because Mary is 70, she will qualify for full Social Security survivor benefits. To get them, she must contact the Social Security Administration (800-772-1213). As a widow, she'll be able to collect two-thirds of what the couple was receiving from Social Security before Andrew's death. Next, Mary must contact Andrew's former employer to request that his pension be paid to her. Again, her benefits will be reduced—she'll qualify for just 50 percent of Andrew's monthly pension, the standard amount paid to surviving spouses.

The Next Step

Mary should inventory all of the couple's assets, from IRAs to certificates of deposit. Then, she should request a rollover of any IRA or 401(k) assets into an IRA in her name only. She should also take Andrew's name off any other property, to avoid confusion down the line. To retitle her home, she should contact the county; for their car, the department of motor vehicles.

As for debt, Mary will get a good idea of her situation as monthly bills flow in. But she could get a snapshot by reviewing a copy of her credit report. Thanks to a new law being rolled out through September 1, 2005, she can get a free copy online at www.annualcreditreport.com or by calling 877-322-8228.

Once she has a good handle on her assets and liabilities, Mary can set a monthly budget. With her reduced income, she'll need to be extremely careful about what she spends. She might also consider hiring a fee-only financial planner to make sure all the pieces of her financial picture make sense. "Let's face it," says Karen Kabarec, a financial planner in Palatine, Illinois, "finances are hard enough to manage even in the best of times."

Karen Hube has written for Money magazine and The Wall Street Journal.