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Split Decisions

By Ric Edelman, March-April 2004

Can they stop a divorce from becoming a disaster?




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Warren and Janice brown, ages 55 and 54, have filed for divorce after 35 years of marriage. Fortunately, it's amicable: they've agreed that their two younger children, ages 14 and 17, will stay with their mother in the family home. (The two older children have graduated from college and live independently.) Warren and Janice married while in college; when Warren entered dental school, Janice dropped out and became the couple's sole money earner. Once Warren started his practice, Janice became a stay-at-home mom. Throughout their marriage, Warren has handled 100 percent of the finances. Once the divorce is final, Janice wants to complete her degree in nursing and then find full-time work.

Strengths

Warren's pretax income is around $140,000 per year. Their home was recently appraised at $210,000. The assets in Warren's pension plan are worth about $80,000. Five years ago, Warren bought a 20-year term life insurance policy for $500,000; Janice is the beneficiary, and the four children are the contingent beneficiaries.

Weaknesses

They owe $15,000 on three joint credit cards, and the re-maining mortgage on their house is $160,000. Warren owes $25,000 on his 2002 Buick; Janice owes $18,000 on her 2001 Camry. They have less than $3,000 in the bank and haven't saved a penny for their teenagers' upcoming college expenses.

The Plan

The divorce decree should include clauses to protect Janice, as she's most likely to suffer financially after the divorce. For starters, it should allow Janice to live in the house until the youngest child turns 24. By then, it's reasonable to expect, the last two kids will be on their own and Janice will be working. The Browns should then sell the house and split the proceeds equally.

The decree should further state that until they sell the house Warren will pay the mortgage and maintenance costs, cover Janice's car payments, and pay her child support and alimony (enough for her to pay for health insurance and her college tuition). Warren must also pay for college and health insurance for the two younger children, just as he did for the two older ones.

Another item for Warren's to-do list: transfer ownership of his life insurance policy to Janice. Warren should continue to pay the premiums (directly, or by adding the cost to her alimony). By putting the policy in Janice's name, he won't be able to change the beneficiary.

To ensure Janice's future , the decree should entitle her to part (usually half) of Warren's pension. Warren hasn't objected to this, but he shouldn't transfer the funds until he's ordered to do so by the court. Otherwise, he'll owe the IRS for taxes, plus a 10 percent early-withdrawal penalty. He can avoid this by getting a Qualified Domestic Relations Order, which is a court-issued outline of howone spouse's retirement assets will be shared with the other.

Finally, Warren should take out a loan (using his practice as security) to pay off the couple's credit cards and legal costs. Janice should then cancel their existing credit cards and open two new credit cards in her name. She'll likely get better rates before divorcing, as credit card companies expect divorcées to have financial problems.

These moves will help the Browns stay friendly—and solvent—as they begin their new life apart.

Ric Edelman is president of Edelman Financial Services.

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