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Can She Bear It?

By Ric Edelman, March-April 2004

She still supports her grown kids. How can she get them off her back-and herself out of debt?




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Dixie Groberg, 63, lives in a rural community of Tennessee and has been a widow for nine years. She has worked on a factory assembly line for more than 20 years and now earns $28,000 annually. (For someone with her experience, she's at the top of her pay scale.) She has four children, and her two youngest, ages 25 and 28, still live at home. Both are employed full-time, but neither pays room and board. Dixie comes up a few hundred dollars short every month because her kids continually ask for financial help, and, well, she never was much good at saying no.

Strengths

Dixie's home is worth about $180,000, and she owns 90 acres of farmland, worth roughly $75,000. In addition, she has some $40,000 saved in her 401(k) plan. Luckily, she's in good health and enjoys her job. She plans to work until she's 70.

Weaknesses

Dixie relies on credit cards to make ends meet. In 1999, she had a balance of $15,000 and refinanced her home (taking out a larger mortgage) to pay it off. In 2002, her debt was back up to $11,000, so she took out a loan to pay off the cards again. Now, two years later, her balance is back up to $10,000. She still owes about $130,000 on her home mortgage (at an interest rate of 8 percent, which was the best rate Dixie could get in 1999). The monthly payment of $1,200 eats up most of her take-home pay.

The Plan

Her first task is to tell all of her kids that the Bank of Dixie is closed. She must stop giving them handouts, and start collecting rent from her live-in sons. If they won't agree to start paying her at least $300 each a month—which is fair for room and board in that area—Dixie should evict them, just as she would any other freeloaders. Dixie spends about $400 a month total on food and utilities for them, and she must start applying that money to her own needs. First on the list is paying off her credit card debt—one last time!

Simultaneously, Dixie needs to boost her retirement savings. The best and easiest strategy is to increase her contributions to her 401(k) plan, as the money is deducted from her paycheck before she can spend it. It'll save her a bit more on taxes, too. She contributes only $100 a month now, but she could raise that to $200 or more if she stops being the family piggy bank.

Dixie will be eligible for full Social Security benefits in 2006, when she'll begin receiving about $800 a month. If she's still working, she should save that money by contributing an additional $800 each month to her 401(k).

Finally, she should consider refinancing the house once more, to lower that high interest rate on her mortgage. She'll likely get a rate just under 6 percent, in which case her monthly payment could drop by as much as $200.

With these moves, Dixie's savings could grow to as much as $150,000 by the time she's 70. That, combined with her Social Security income and the value of her properties, should allow her to maintain her lifestyle. And to spoil her grandkids—at least once in a while.

Ric Edelman is the founder of Edelman Financial Services and author of The Truth About Money.

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