Who Inspires You?
Our annual Inspire Awards honor ten extraordinary people age 50 and over whose innovative thinking, passion, and perseverance have made the world a better place. Honorees include health crusaders,
children’s advocates, poverty fighters, community builders, and more. Tell us about someone you know—personally or not—age 50-plus whom you admire for improving our world.
Pre-Need Funeral Policies
The AARP The Magazine article “R.I.P. Off” investigates a growing national scandal: pre-paid funeral contracts that aren't honored when funeral companies change hands, go out of business, or raid their trust funds so money isn’t there when it’s needed. Thousands of Americans have been victims of pre-need funeral abuses—are you one of them, or have you found that purchasing a pre-paid plan was a good move? Share your experience here.
Excuses for Not Exercising
Most Americans know how important regular exercise is for one’s health, yet so many of us repeatedly break our New Year’s resolutions to get—and stay—fit, coming up with all sorts of absurd reasons for not sticking to our fitness goals. What are the most ridiculous excuses you’ve used or heard for not exercising?
Don't miss the related AARP The Magazine article "Get Off the Couch" for tips for staying motivated.
Have You Found Your Calling?
In the related AARP The Magazine article, career coach and author Dan Miller stresses the importance of identifying and understanding your skills and abilities; personality traits; and values, dreams, and passions in order to find the right work fit. He maintains that this is just as important for older workers looking for second careers as it is for younger people. Did you find fulfilling work at midlife or beyond by looking inward and following your dreams? Share your story here.
How’s Your Sex Drive?
Have you or your partner experienced changes in your libido? If so, you’re not alone. Read the related AARP The Magazine article “Whither Desire” (don’t miss our tips for regaining an active sex life!), and share your
story here. When did you notice the change? How have you dealt with it? If you’ve got a secret for rekindling desire at 50+, we’d like to hear about it.
Calling All Caregivers
People looking after ailing loved ones are often at great risk for mental and physical illnesses themselves, but many caregivers do not seek help. Use this message board as a
forum for connecting with fellow caregivers, and a place to share suggestions for coping with the demands of caregiving. Read the related AARP The Magazine
article “Caring for the Caregiver.”
Going Gray
“To dye or not to dye,” muses Anne Kreamer in her book Going Gray: What I Learned About Beauty, Sex, Work, Motherhood, Authenticity and Everything Else That Really
Matters, reviewed
in AARP The
Magazine Online. For many people—both women and men—going gray is an emotionally difficult experience. How do you feel, and what have you done, about going gray?
Do you color your hair, or have you chosen the natural route? How
much, if at all, do you worry about what your hair color communicates to the world? Join the discussion on our message board.
Loss of a Parent
In her essay “On My Own,” Iris Krasnow writes about the experience of losing her mother. She says it wasn’t until her
mom died that she finally felt like a “real adult”—at age 52. Have you
lost one or both of your parents? How has it affected you? React to Krasnow’s story of reconciliation, loss, and grieving and share your own story with fellow readers.
Is There Life After Death?
AARP The Magazine did a survey to find out what Americans in the second half of their lives think about life after death. Read the related article and join the discussion here. If you do
believe in an afterlife, describe your visions of Heaven and Hell.
JFK’s Death
In his book Reclaiming History: The Assassination of President John F. Kennedy, famed prosecutor Vincent Bugliosi debunks myths about the death of JFK,
maintaining that Lee Harvey Oswald killed Kennedy and acted alone. Read
the related AARP The Magazine article and share your own theory about what happened that fateful day in
American history. Also, tell us your memories of that time.
Global Warming
In his AARP The Magazine article “Global Meltdown,” renowned environmental reporter Andrew Revkin explains that
global warming is becoming a legacy issue for older
Americans, and that we need to act now to protect our children and our children’s children. Are you leading a climate-friendly life (turning your thermostat down, driving a
hybrid, etc.)? Tell us how, and share your thoughts on global
warming.
What Is a Grownup?
In the July & August 2007 issue of AARP The Magazine, Editor Steven Slon explores what it means to be a grownup. Read the article and watch the accompanying video to find
out what he and others think about adulthood. Then join the discussion here on our message board by completing this sentence: “You’re a grownup when….” And tell us at what age you started to feel like an adult.
Getting Along With In-Laws
In the related AARP The Magazine essay "The In-Law Switch," Larkin Warren describes her in-law relationships from both
perspectives—mother and
daughter. Describe your own experience of being or having a mother- or father-in-law, and share any advice you have for fellow readers struggling to find common ground
with an in-law.
Live Better With Less
Author-economist-activist Bill McKibben maintains that the more Americans acquire, the less happy we are, and the more we damage our environment. Further, if developing
countries follow our lead, the planet
will suffer greatly. Read the related AARP The Magazine article "Live Better With Less," and share your
opinions and experiences here. Do you think
we need to downsize the American way of life? Will this make us happier? Have you yourself downsized? If yes, how?
Empty Nesters
So, your children have finally moved out of the house and you've got the place to yourself/yourselves. Is it everything you dreamed it would be—or everything you
dreaded? The Empty Nest is a
collection of essays by parents whose kids have flown the coop. Read our review of the book and share your empty nest experiences
here with fellow readers. Consider these
questions: What are the best and worst parts of being an empty nester? Did your relationship with your spouse change after your children moved out? What's the biggest
change in your daily routine since the kids
left? What happens when they come home for visits?
Your Solutions for Social Security
In his most recent novel, Boomsday, satirist Christopher Buckley throws out a tongue-in-cheek solution to keep Social Security solvent: government-sponsored
suicide for older Americans. What
ideas—crazy or otherwise—do you have for keeping Social Security solvent? Share your suggestions with fellow readers here on our message board.
Read our exclusive interview with Buckley.
Writing to Live
Author Joan Didion dealt with her husband’s sudden death and daughter’s terminal illness by writing The Year of Magical Thinking, her memoir of loss and mourning. How
have you dealt with the loss or illness of
a loved one? What words of wisdom or comfort can you share with others who are struggling to cope with their own grief? Read the related AARP The Magazine article “Writing to Live.”
Have You Taken a Leap?
In her book Leap!, Sara Davidson presents real-life examples of people who are reinventing themselves after 50,
successfully making the “leap” to the
next phase of their lives. Have you made this transition yourself, in your work or personal life? Share your experiences here on our message board, along with any advice you
might have for others looking to find
new purpose after 50.
Bless Our Contractors
In her AARP The Magazine essay "Bless Our Contractors," Martha Weinman Lear tells us she has—thus
far—survived her kitchen redo,
and has managed to maintain her sense of humor (and her marriage) despite so many things going wrong. We want to know about your home renovation project—the
good, the bad, and the ugly. Share
your experiences here.
Health Nut
The related AARP The Magazine article "Health Nut" profiles Dorian "Doc" Paskowitz, an 86-year-old doctor
and fitness fanatic who
chose—for himself and his wife and nine children—a nomadic life of surfing and obsessive lean eating. We'd like to know what you think of Doc's
unconventional lifestyle and his hardnosed ideas
about healthy living and the achievement of "superior well-being." Share your thoughts here on our message board.
MFG
In our sixth annual Movies for Grownups™ Awards, we recognize outstanding films from
2006. Were any of your favorite movies of
the year missing from our list? Was a brilliant performance overlooked? Would you have distributed these awards differently? Share your rants and raves here.
Cleaning Out Clutter
The related AARP The Magazine article “Conquering Clutter” explores the
reasons why people hoard and offers tips to help pack rats
“declutter.” We’d like to know the strangest, funniest, or
most interesting thing you’ve uncovered while cleaning out your home or
office, and whether you decided to keep it or throw it away. Share your story
here on our message board.
Thoughts on Aging
In our Web-exclusive Q&A with
Isabel Allende, the bestselling author says “I'm 64, and I'm
as healthy and strong as I was when I was 20. So I have to look at myself in
the mirror and ask: what happened to this body? Inside I feel as though I have
not aged, but outside, of course, we do age.” What about you? How do you
feel about your own aging? Share your thoughts here.
Secrets
In the related article on AARP The Magazine Online, we learn how older Americans are more likely to maintain significant, long-held
secrets—and how best to divulge
them. In this special message board, please share your own experiences with revealing a powerful secret later in life.
Keeping Your Kids Afloat
The related article from AARP The Magazine looks at the growing phenomenon of young adults turning to their parents for
financial assistance, and offers tips
for dealing with these often difficult situations. Have you helped your adult children with money, or let them move back home? Share your own tips, stories, and concerns
with fellow readers.
Homeschooling Grandchildren
The related article in AARP The Magazine raises the question of whether the growing number of retirees homeschooling their
grandkids are effective. The job doesn’t
come without its challenges, but some grandparents swear by it. Share your opinions about homeschooling and any relevant experiences here.
Growing Up in the 1950s
In his memoir, The Life and Times of the Thunderbolt Kid, Bill Bryson takes a stroll down memory lane, reminiscing about growing up in Iowa in the 1950s. Read
about the book in our discussion guide, check out our Q&A with the author, then share your
strongest childhood or adolescent
memories here with fellow readers. Are you, like Bryson, nostalgic about this time in America? Why or why not?
Job Changes
An increasing number of older workers are switching careers after the age of 50. The AARP The Magazine article “Presto Change-
o” looks at this growing trend and
features five go-getters who made a move at midlife or beyond. Have you joined the ranks? Tell us about your experiences, and share advice with fellow readers who might
be considering an occupational
transformation of their own.
Living Longer
In the related special report from AARP The Magazine, we learn a myriad of tactics—from simple exercises to changes
in diet—that can add healthy
years to our lives. But what if scientists ultimately made it even easier by developing a longevity pill of some sort? Would you take it? Consider your long-term physical and
financial well-being, among other
factors, when responding here.
Surviving Breast Cancer
As the related article in AARP The Magazine indicates, women will encounter several difficult choices when diagnosed
with breast cancer. And because
treatment decisions often boil down to what’s best for each patient’s lifestyle and personality, many recently diagnosed women find it most helpful to talk to women who
have been through treatment. Please
share your questions and experiences here.
Adult Children of Divorce
As the related article from AARP The Magazine reveals, divorce often hits children hardest when they're already
grown—fully capable of understanding
their parents' trauma and often shocked by the sudden departure from decades of familial bliss. Older Americans and their adult children alike should come together here to
share insights from their own
experiences with midlife divorce.
Happy 60th Birthday!
In the related article from AARP The Magazine, editor Karen Reyes celebrates her 60th birthday—and those of many
other boomer cohorts this
year—with a peek at the results of a special AARP survey that sought boomers' birthday wishes and dreams. Tell us, what will you be wishing for when you blow out
the candles on your 60th-birthday cake?
Rise and Shine
In her novel Rise and Shine, author Anna Quindlen weaves a story of two grown sisters around a pivotal event that results in a reversal of roles. Read about the book
in our discussion guide, then share your own sibling stories on our special message board. Has your relationship with your sibling(s)
changed since childhood? If so, how?
Late-Life Higher Education
Returning to school for advanced study will soon be the way to prepare
for the most rewarding chapter of your life, says Harvard Professor Rosabeth
Moss Kanter in her AARP The Magazine article on going back to college at
age fifty-plus. Read the article
and share your thoughts on Kanter’s vision of “late-life higher
education” for older Americans who want to make a positive impact on
their communities and the world.
Friends for Life
In the AARP The Magazine article "Friends for Life," in which he
pays homage to his close pal Jack, who lost his life to cancer, Bob Greene
writes: “The friends who mean everything to us—the friends without
whom our lives would be empty—are our most enduring models of grace and
good fortune. When we lose them, we realize that our own lives have been filled
to overbrimming with the grand, invisible gifts they have given us.” On
our special message board, share memories of your oldest, dearest friends and
the gifts they’ve bestowed upon you.
Politics Lost
In his book Politics Lost, Joe Klein maintains that politics has
hit an all-time low in this country, in large part because our leaders are more
interested in getting reelected than in actually leading, and campaigns are too
focused on image and message control. Read our discussion guide then tell us
what qualities you look for in a candidate for office, which politicians have
inspired you and why, and how you feel about term limits.
CrazyBusy
In his book CrazyBusy: Overstretched, Overbooked, and About to Snap!
Edward M. Hallowell, M.D. offers a plan for coping with the super-hectic pace
of modern life. Do you agree that we’re suffering from some kind of
society-induced ADD? What do you think is the biggest cause of distraction for
people today? Do cell phones, email, and BlackBerrys make life easier or more
frantic? Share your thoughts here on our message board, and also tell us, if
you had more time in an ordinary day, how you would spend it.
Read about
CrazyBusy on AARP The Magazine Online’s Books channel.
Depression in
Men
According to an AARP The
Magazine health report, doctors now know how to treat depression, but
many men are still suffering in silence. Do you have experience with male
depression, either your own or that of a loved one? Share your stories and
advice with fellow readers here.
Calling All
McCartney Fans
Are you outraged that your favorite Paul McCartney song is not on our poll? Tell us your top pick
and give us a piece of your mind below. We're also interested in your best
McCartney, Beatles, or Wings memories.
Single
Women 50+
Read AARP The Magazine’s feature story on "The Secret Lives of Single
Women", then come together with others here on our special message
board to share your feelings about the single life and the myths surrounding
it.
Are
You a "Smart Patient?"
Dealing with our health-care system can be daunting. What strategies do you
have for getting top-quality medical treatment—whether it be going for an
annual checkup, choosing a specialist, or preparing for a hospital stay? Share
your tips and stories with fellow readers here on our special message
board.
Read about YOU: The
Smart Patient: An Insider's Handbook for Getting the Best Treatment
on AARP The Magazine Online’s Books Channel.
The
Greater Generation
In his book The Greater Generation: In Defense of the Baby Boom Legacy,
Leonard Steinhorn maintains that boomers have gotten a bad rap and deserve more
credit for their achievements—advancing civil rights, improving the
status of women, protecting the environment, to name a few. He argues that
boomers have done more to make our country a better place than their
"Greatest Generation" parents have. Do you agree?
Read our discussion guide and then share your opinions here.
Striking Back Book
Review
In his review of Aaron J. Klein’s
Striking Back: The 1972 Munich Olympics Massacre and Israel's Deadly
Response, Jesse Kornbluth writes that the author "does a masterful job
of recreating the Munich tragedy," but feels Klein "has, perhaps
unconsciously, traded an independent point of view for access" to sources.
Do you agree? For those who’ve seen Steven Spielberg’s film
Munich, do you think the director takes a more balanced approach to the
subject matter? If you haven’t yet read the book or seen the movie,
please share your recollections of these fateful events.
Seven
Sins
Don’t deprive yourself of pleasure, Roger Housden tells us in his book
Seven Sins for a Life Worth Living. Read our discussion guide and share your thoughts
on self-indulgence. What "sin" do you allow yourself? Does indulging
in it help you in some way? If so, how? And are there societal or cultural
"sins" you think should be reconsidered as actually positive or
beneficial? Tell us here.
"How-We-Met"
Stories
Read the first-person accounts of love at first sight in the related
AARP The Magazine article, then share your own
touching, outrageous, or unbelievable "how-we-met" story here. And
don’t miss our
Web exclusive on
love letters.
Family
Secrets
In an interview with AARP The
Magazine, Ordinary Heroes author Scott Turow says it’s in
the nature of families to keep secrets. Do you agree? Are you a parent who has
kept secrets from your children? Or have your parents kept their past to
themselves? Read the discussion guide on
Ordinary Heroes on our Books channel, and
share your thoughts on family secrets.
Life's Little
Annoyances
Read Allan Fallow’s review of
Life’s Little Annoyances and then join the dialogue to tell us
about the biggest "little annoyances" in your own life. Better yet,
if you’ve gone from getting irked to getting even, tell us how.
Marilyn
Johnson’s Books Blog
Marilyn Johnson writes about books every week for our Books channel. Find out what Marilyn is talking about this week and
join the discussion here.
Jesse
Kornbluth's Books Blog
Jesse Kornbluth writes about books every week for AARP The Magazine
Online’s Books channel. Find out
what Jesse is talking about this week and join the discussion here.
Spiritual
Retreats
Living such a fast-paced life, as so many of us do, it’s important to be
able to escape and find some inner peace. Read about six spiritual getaways in
our feature "Where the Spirit
Moves You," and the article on "Everyday Serenity," then tell us about some
of your secret—or not so secret—spiritual retreats in your own
backyard or farther afield.
Late-Life
Parenting
Having a child later in life can be exciting and life-affirming. And while it
can also be scary, more and more people are doing it, such as the parents
featured in the related AARP The Magazine article, “Oh, Baby.” Are
you a midlife mom or dad? Share your insights, experiences, and advice here
with those who may be in the same boat or are thinking about becoming a parent
at age 40, 50, or later.
Boosting
Brainpower
A special
report in AARP The Magazine tells you why your brain may be better now
than it's ever been. One reason: Because of the surprising resilience and
growth potential of this amazing organ. Some of the most brilliant scientists,
writers, artists, and inventors did their best work later in life. How about
you? Have you become smarter as you've grown older? Tell us how. Did you
learn a new language? Go back to school? Learn to draw or write? Or do you
worry that certain memories and skills are starting to slip, so you've
engaged in activities to protect yourself? We'd like to know what
you're doing to boost your brainpower and what your motivation is—the
desire to challenge yourself or the fear that if you don't use it
you'll lose it.
Baseball
Moments with Dad
Do you love baseball, thanks to dear old Dad? Or did he try but fail to pass
the passion on to you (like Frank Gannon in "Striking Out With My Son")?
Share your Dad-and-baseball memories here.
Should
You Tell If You’re Sick?
Many people living with an illness feel the need to hide it—from
colleagues, friends, even family. Some don’t want to be pitied, some feel
ashamed, and some worry their business or career will suffer if they are open
about their condition. Others, however, like the author of the related AARP The Magazine article,
find that it can be a whole lot better for your well-being if you don’t
keep your sickness a secret. Please share your experiences and advice with
fellow readers here.
How Much
Do We Owe Our Parents?
Start with the fundamental question: Is caregiving an obligation or a
burden—or both? Different cultures will have different answers, of
course. And your own personal family dynamics will drive the answer as much as
anything, as noted in various articles in AARP The Magazine's online guide to caregiving. So just how far are
you supposed to go in caring for your parents? Can you really promise never to
put them in a nursing home? Should you feel obligated to take them into your
own home? Where do you draw the line?
Managing
Family Dynamics in a Caregiving Environment
Caring for an aging parent invariably makes long-simmering family conflicts
bubble to the surface, as noted in various articles in AARP The
Magazine's online guide to caregiving.
Share your experiences in establishing roles for siblings and other relatives.
How can you persuade siblings living far away to serve in some
capacity—and to see value in their contributions? And how about the
caregiving gender gap—do women still get stuck with most of the work, and
is there really good reason for that?
Handling
End-of-Life Issues as a Caregiver
It's the conversation that everybody dreads: How do your parents want to
die? In AARP The Magazine's online
guide to caregiving, Hugh Delehanty reveals how the "death talk"
forever changed his relationship with his father. How do you even bring up the
conversation? Will you be able to honor your parent's wishes, even if you
don't agree with them? How do you prepare yourself to "pull the
plug" when it's time? Share your experiences and insights with fellow
caregivers here.
Getting Fit at
50-Plus
Did you get back in shape again after your 50th birthday? Maybe you're
still working on it? Or are you striving to become truly fit for the first time
in your life? Share your ups and downs with others who are taking on the
fitness challenge. Read the related article from
AARP The Magazine.
Secrets
of Enduring Marriages
Know a good formula for making a marriage last? Something learned from your
own marriage or something passed on to you by an older relative or friend?
Share the wisdom on our message board here. Read the related article from AARP The
Magazine.
How'd I Get So
Fat?
In the related AARP The
Magazine article, Anne Krueger shares her personal struggle with
overeating—and how it has affected her outlook on life, as well as her
own daughter's attitude toward food. What kind of effect has weight had on
you or your loved ones? Join our discussion.
Rip-off Alert:
Beat the Cheats
The related article from
AARP The Magazine provides 17 tips to common rip offs and outright
scams. In this special message board, share your guidance on spotting and
preventing unnecessary expenses.
Days
of Wine and Noses
As the related article
on AARPmagazine.org explains, wine can be a lot like
music—what appeals to one connoisseur often won't appeal to another.
And yet wine lovers (like music lovers) frequently seek recommendations as they
explore their passion. Share notes about your favorite wines here for others to
enjoy—or at least for them to try.
Faith, Hope and
Clarity
As the writer of the
related article on AARPmagazine.org tells us, she has been on a
quest to find her own inner peace. Share your thoughts on what brings you a
spiritual high, be it religion, communing with nature, charitable works, or
something totally different.
Fear
Busters
The writer of the related
article from AARP The Magazine advocates that the older we get, the
less likely we are to push ourselves to new limits, but that scaring ourselves
on a regular basis will keep us young. In this special message board, share
your experiences and insights about new experiences you have tackled, or would
like to tackle, with fellow readers.
A House
Divided
The related article
and survey results about midlife divorce from AARP The Magazine
reveal that more long-term marriages are coming to an end these days—but
the reasons behind the divorces might surprise you. In this special message
board, share your experiences and insights about marriage, divorce, and moving
on with fellow readers.
Putting the Fun
in Refund
Brace yourselves: It's that time of year again, and the IRS might owe you
some money. Given that the average tax refund is $2,000, how do you plan to
splurge with your newfound riches? Read the related article from
AARP The Magazine.
Movies for
Grownups Message Boards
Share your favorite movie quote. Debate the best movie of all time. Or the
best movie soundtrack. Or whether Hollywood accurately depicts historical
events. Join fellow movie buffs in these Movies for Grownups message boards and
others.
Inner
Beauty
The related
article from AARP The Magazine explains that cultivating indoor plants can
be a tricky task. But the right plants in the right spots can thrive and
brighten your home. What kind of indoor plants have you have success with? And
how?
My
Bitter Half
In the related AARP
The Magazine article, we look at strategies for couples coping with a
layoff. If you or your spouse has been laid off, how have you dealt with the
adversities you faced? Share your experiences and guidance with fellow readers
here.
Back to
School at Age 50+
In the related
web-exclusive series at AARPmagazine.org, 55-year-old Theresa Statuti heads
back to college to pursue a new career. In addition to the challenge of
learning alongside students less than half your age, the stresses of homework
and exams can be compounded by adult responsibilities such as caregiving. How
tough is to go back to school later in life? How rewarding is it? For those of
you who have taken or are taking classes later in life, chime in here. Theresa
and the author of our online series will pop onto this message board from time
to time to add their insights as well.
Dating
Horror Stories
A bad date—utterly boring and/or totally weird—is par for the
course in the dating game. (See the related AARP The Magazine
article.) It also makes for a great story. Share your best dating horror
story here, then check back for other great tales from fellow readers.
Navigating the Dating
Scene as an Older American
The related AARP
The Magazine article sheds light on the growing volume of single older
Americans—and the unique challenges that they face. How has the dating
game changed since your youth? What makes you most uncomfortable about dating?
Share your challenges and guidance here.
Share
Your Great First-Date Ideas
The related web-exclusive
feature identifies 10 smart first-date ideas for older Americans. Sure, the
setting for your next first date will depend a lot on the personality of your
special friend, but tell us about a can't-miss idea that you rely upon as
the foundation for many first dates.
Air
Your Curmudgeonly Gripes Here!
Even though we call curmudgeons "grouchy," "grumpy," and
"mean," we need them. They remind us that just about
everything—from cars to TV dinners to plagues—isn't as good as
it used to be. Read the
case for curmudgeonry, share your gripes, and learn what other curmudgeons
have to say.
Grandparent-Grandchild
Activities
In the related
AARPmagazine.org article, read about several specific ideas for fun and
educational activities to undertake with your grandchildren. Then share your
own favorite projects here in this message board.
Reunion
Magic
In the related AARP The Magazine article about his mother's
college reunion, editor Steven Slon shares insights from his mother's
60th college reunion. Indeed, reunions can tap a variety of emotions and
philosophies. Share your most
poignant reunion story here.
Recalling
Antiquated Words
In the related
AARP The Magazine article, words such as "rumble seat" and
"nylons" come to mind as relics of a bygone era. What's your
favorite example of a word or phrase that seems to have disappeared?
Share
Your Korean War Memories
In the related AARP The Magazine articles, veterans of the
"forgotten war" share proof that, for them at least, many of their
actions and emotions during the Korean War are indeed remembered, forever a
part of them. We invite you to share your own
memories here in this special message board.
Harley
Road-Trip Tips
Whether you're a rookie or veteran Harley owner, you know the exhilaration
of cruising the open road on a hog. But veterans of the cross-country ride to
Sturgis—or to any far-flung destination, for that matter—know the
sweet spots that can turn a mere road trip into an adventure. Where to eat,
where to party, where to hole up for the night—share your best tips
here!
Handling Bad Medical
News
Some of the best therapy for folks dealing with bad medical news is to talk it
out with peers who have survived similar experiences. Have you recovered from a
scary medical diagnosis? Share your insights
and support here for fellow readers.
Bury the
Hatchet
Family grudges make great stories. In this special message board, share the
details of your biggest conflict—why it started, how much it
escalated, and how it finally ended.
Share Your
Cost-Cutting Tips
The related AARP The
Magazine article offers 25 practical and offbeat strategies for saving
a few bucks here and there. Everybody's got a savvy money-saving tip of
their own—what's yours?
Doctor-Assisted
Suicide
In the related article "Death
With Dignity," we learn there's more to assisted suicide than meets the
eye. In Oregon, an assisted-suicide law is actually improving access to
less-drastic treatments. In other states, similar laws might not have the same
effect. Is the issue clear-cut to you? Or does the topic of assisted suicide
demand a larger examination of end-of-life care in general?
Obesity
Obesity used to be a problem of youth. Now, it has caught up to older
Americans. There's plenty of blame for the obesity epidemic to go around,
and there are just as many solutions these days—from exercise and diet,
to surgery and pills. What's your take?
Boomerang
Kids
When your adult children move back to the family home, it can be a rewarding
experience for all–;if you establish certain ground rules in advance to
steer the new living arrangement. How has the presence of your adult children
at home changed your life? How do you make it work? What's the biggest
challenge? (Read the related AARP Bulletin article Hard
Times Drive Adult Kids Home and the related AARP The Magazine
article Look Who's
Back.)
Woodstock
Envy
Really, did you attend Woodstock? In the related article "Woodstock Envy," the author
comes to grips with her absence from the concert, and she even wonders about
the concert's effects on its audience. What did Woodstock mean to you?
The
Fearless 50—Who'd We Miss?
AARP The Magazine's Fearless 50 celebrates innovators
50 and older who have changed the world in some meaningful way. But, like any
list, it's open for debate. Tell us who else belongs on the list–and
why.
Hormone
Replacement Therapy (HRT)
After a recent study questioned the safety of hormone replacement therapy
(HRT), many women are pondering whether to continue (or start) HRT. Share your
questions, concerns, and insights about HRT with other women here.
What's
Your Passion?
In our starter list of 50 things to be passionate
about, we've done our best to identify the most popular pastimes, but
let's face it: Our list of 50 activities is just the start. And so now we
turn the list-making over to you. Share details of your favorite passions in
life here.
World
War II Memories
Read this captivating collection of personal recollections
from World War II—from people who experienced the war in Europe, in
the Pacific, and at home. Then, share your own stories and opinions to help us
all connect with the past and better understand the present.
Pearl
Harbor Memories
Read these stirring eyewitness accounts of the December 7, 1941, attack on
Pearl Harbor.